12 November 2007

Serendipity






"The discovery of something fortunate. The accidental discovery of something pleasant, valuable, or useful." This is how Webster's defines serendipity. I have my own thought on serendipity: Being in the right place, at the right time, with the will, want, and wherefore to take advantage of the cards life deals you.

This weekend Janet, Gabe, and I were participants in our friends', Kit and Tiffany, wedding. (Refer to the previous blog for more info). The trip to Caldwell was as uneventful as expected. Caldwell is a beautiful little town, but the Mecca of Excitement it ain't. The happy couple's families got along swimmingly and the rehearsal / rehearsal supper went off without a hitch. The true part of this serendipitous weekend started when we arrived in College Station. As an LSU fan all I've ever heard about Aggieland is how it was a cow town in the Middle-of-Nowhere Texas. The drive into town on University Ave. was an enlightenment.

Have you ever had a big town amenities / small town atmosphere experience? That is what College Station appears to be. The typically unique bar / restaurant area next to campus was adjacent to an up and coming restaurant / lodging area. The true surprise was the wonderful downtown area located in Bryan. I was expecting a safe haven of ultra conservatism but what I found was a place supportive of the arts without the need to be offensive. We ventured into a store filled with crystal jewelry, ren-fest clothing, and religious icons and asked a few of the local gentry to suggest a local place to eat that would make our Bryan experience memorable. The vote was unanimous for Papa Perez's for lunch from everyone polled. I had something that I didn't think was even possible: A fried avacado stuffed with meat, cheese, and spices. It was incredible! The best part about the place is that it was just one of those store front places that you would never give a blink to unless someone had recommended it to you or your car broke down right in front. In the realm of food, the places that are often overlooked provide the most memorable encounters.

Of course I would be remiss if I didn't speak of the most serendipitous event.

I had lagged behind that morning and showered last. Janet and Gabe decided to hop down to the lobby to grab some juice at the complimentary breakfast and that's when things got interesting. My son's shy button has malfunctioned since birth. This plus the fact that The US Army Parachute Demonstration Team ,"The Golden Knights", were loading up for their events for the day turned the rest of our day into an once in a life time occasion. Gabe saw the guys in uniform and immediately let them know that his daddy was in the Army too. By this time I was done getting ready and wanted to find out if there were any special places around to grab a lite breakfast. ( To shorten this story to a more tolerable length, I'll cut to the chase. ) The commander of the group let it slip that they were jumping for the re-dedication of the George Bush Library at Texas A&M and that former President Bush would be jumping with them. How often do you get to see an 83 year old man jump from and airplane much less with the Golden Knights and that old man is the former leader of the Free World. Apparently it was such a secret that the event volunteers and many of the other folks working didn't know about the special jumper.

Once again fate provided us with an occasion that we were prepared to open ourselves to and let happen. When Gabe looks back on his childhood, it is my most sincere wish that he realizes we were always willing to follow the adventure and explore life. Whether it was the small lake community that we wandered into in Kentucky that became a must see for any of our visitors at Ft. Campbell, the wonderful zoos, museums and parks, and of course the people who have enriched all of those experiences, I hope that he knows that sometimes you just have to get off the map, stop looking at the watch, and let life show you something totally unexpected.

09 November 2007

The Art of Decision Making



Janet, Gabe, and I are going to Caldwell, TX this weekend for our friends' wedding. The couple, Kit and Tiffany, asked each one of us to participate in some form or fashion during the ceremony and we are honored to be able to be a part of something that will be one of their most cherished memories. Plus, I look damn good in a tux.

In keeping with modern tradition, the guys and I from B/2-4 AVN decided to provide Kit with a night of debauchery commonly known as "The Bachelor Party". We all met at HOOTERS and then hit some local establishments and a good time was had by all. In keeping with another tradition, no details will ever be divulged by anyone involved under penalty of death. Just kidding. It was a very fun yet low key night that concluded without incident. Everyone that has seen the pre-Academy Award winning Tom Hanks film "Bachelor Party" would have been disappointed. No drugs, hookers, male sex organ sandwiches, or donkeys were involved. But, when all was said and done, I believe that everyone that participated had a great time and was happy to be a part of Kit's grand send off.

I think one of the most important thing to mention is that at no point in the night was anyone in our party in danger of getting into a physical altercation or receiving a DUI. We had a plan, designated drivers, and friends that care enough about one another to make sure that fun and not trouble was the focus of the evening. In my younger days I pushed the boundaries of safety and good sense by doing things I now consider overwhelmingly idiotic. There are mornings that I woke up wondering how I got home only to look out my window and see that I had driven not only myself but many of my drunk friends home as well. I'm not saying this to brag but to make a point. There are some life lessons we are lucky to survive learning. Too many of the young (and sometimes older) men and women that are coming home from Iraq drop their good sense off with there leave packets and weekend passes and drink and drive. I was fortunate enough to never get caught, kill myself, or God forbid kill anyone else during my college years. But I was also fortunate enough to know that if I got caught I wasn't going to ruin my current career. The young men and women that I work with who take these risks not only will be prosecuted by civil authorities but also recieve non-UCMJ punishment, can be removed from their current jobs, and lose money and rank. STUPID!!!!! All of these things are so easily avoided by just having a plan....even if that plan is to call some one at the end of the night to pick you up or hiding $20 in your car to pay a taxi to take you home.

I guess the reason I am thinking about the DUI thing is that today is the anniversary of my return home from Iraq and in the preceding 365 days I have known several people lose rank, money, and even lives for simple stupid decisions made at the end of a good night of partying. I am not in any way advocating for the abstinence crowd. I believe that it is a persons right to abuse themselves in any way that they see fit as long as it does not hurt or adversely affect others. So the point I am trying to make is that there are enough pitfalls and dangers in our lives and jobs as soldiers and aviators, don't make yourself an easy target when life sends a round your way.

P.S. Here's one of the groom. Good luck Kit and Tiff!